children
and toxic people
How toxic are you?
(Article 1)
Sometimes we think and point out suicidal people as people with mental imbalance, sometimes we think "what a coward" or "how brave" depending on the perspective, but nobody really knows what is behind this decision, and then, for to take the time to rate the action ?.
There are many national and international campaigns, and if possible, even intergalactic where they talk about the bullying of children, adolescents, relatives, adults, old people, dogs, cats and stop counting, but this unfortunately and although they do not seem to be in only campaign, a very low percentage understands and understands with responsibility the consequences of this evil, but this same percentage drops when we observe that there is probably little research and disinformation about the causes and about the level of toxicity that you contribute to society, because if To be toxic is a type of bullying in my opinion.
There are people who are able to control your emotions, destroy your self-esteem and even ruin your dreams, these people are unconsciously affecting your life and your development, these people are usually people close to you, what happens when you are victim of toxic people Well, at first hand I describe the sensation as a cold liquid that even has flavor, you feel as each drop penetrates every part of your veins as if they were injected with something I do not know what, that goes through your body and reaches the parts that you can not imagine, managing to make your lungs feel affected and not breathe well, finally reaching your brain where you take control of everything that happens in your environment.
Now, imagine what someone produces whose main characteristic is to get the dark side, cold and disturbing to everything you do or every word you say, close your eyes and imagine school age (elementary), wake up and get ready to go to school. school, now listen for you to make up if you're still ugly? If you do not manage, you're ugly because you do not fix yourself or why you do not know how to fix it! Implicit being the whole thing, what an ugly hair, you're skinny, you're fat, if you teeth, if the body and a host of adjectives kill talents that, without realizing it, is injected as a kind of emotion alien to those that We already know, as a mixture or hybrid of those we already know where frustration and disorder reign. Have you ever thought about how much toxicity you bring to an individual? Have you ever thought about how serious the consequence can be for the people around you not detecting in time if you are a toxic person or even worse if you are the victim of a toxic person and you have not noticed? Weekly I will share short stories on the subject and what we can do so as not to fall into a toxic over dose, and what we can do to help the victims of this illness or type of boulling as I call it.
How toxic are you?
(Article 2)
It was difficult for me, and I can not hide that it still is, to understand that a toxic person is not bad, but that they are people who have been damaged at some time in their life, if a person expresses with negative thoughts and comments this comes from a difficult past and unconsciousness does not know how to show that frustration and anger rather than insults, ridicule and aggression, empathy and compassion are the best tools to identify and combat this behavior (according to experts), but let's see, Now to the reality, what fault do I have that your life was a popo? What guilt does a child have about how bad your past has been or how they were brought up? Being an adult is having the awareness and responsibility to stop at some point in your life and think how toxic you have been to your environment or how victim of that poison you have been, determine the consequences of it and act upon it.
Close your eyes and imagine yourself in your puberty stage, now listen, "you have already developed" you are going to get fat, you are going to get ugly, you have to cover your breasts because if they do not rape you and with the ugly you are and raped you never go to marry, if you get good grades "who copied you" if you get bad grades "you do not do anything" without leaving behind everything mentioned in the last article (ugly, dientona, espelucada, among others). For a toxic person you are never good enough to see the positive side of something, not even something like the fact of being alive, but the worst is not that, but it is living thinking that all this is normal, that is the way life and that is how one has to behave, without thinking for a moment the day, or that you can cause to the people you love only because you have the conviction that this is normal, because no, no, no, and a deep one, that would be past if in the life of that victim who became victimizer he was found with someone who made him react and eye react to a toxic person is not easy but not difficult, you just have to adapt the perspective and the vocabulary, although for many people there is no remedy, but for others, yes.
Try to change a world where everything is predisposed so that everything goes wrong because in your family reigns the kettle, as sensible as if we see a game we have to bet that you lose your favorite team so they win, because in the family everything it turns us upside down, because everything moves luck, it is very, very difficult, but there is always something or someone that can achieve it, there is always a trigger that makes you react, one moves the floor, which can be little angels that They look with eyes that as if you were the greatest superhero whose behavior is the one that they have to imitate, in order to repeat the circle over and over again. How toxic are you or what toxic person have you become?
It's never too late to be what you could have been. George Eliot
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